Relationship Coach To Single Men: Seek Beauty Before Character
It is very clear that, many people consider characters than beauty when it comes to marriage, A Nigerian relationship coach has advised men intending to marry to, first of all, go for women they are physically attracted to – whose character is also good.
Coach Mma Eke does not believe in the widely held notion that a woman’s character triumphs her beauty – at least not in marital circles.
In a social media post, the founder of Phenomenal Sisters Academy, which offers advice on everything love and marriage, said that men should marry people who they would still be proud of years after. In other words, she seems to be of the opinion that while a solid character is what every man hopes to get, however, beauty is equally important.
Mma Eke said both attributes – beauty and character – are, and should be desirable, but that beauty should come first before character.
This is how she put it:
So I just heard a man is about taking a second wife because his wife is “smallish” in nature. I asked, didn’t he see her like that before marrying her? What attracted him in the first place? Character I guess? Lol
You see why I somehow don’t believe this overrated statement of “a woman’s beauty is in her character” men chorus about? I just feel they are not being honest with themselves.
I keep saying, before you get to know how “beautiful a woman’s character is, something must attract you to her first. That something could be her height, shape, complexion, hair, smile, teeth, eye, poise, etc. Something about her physique endeared her to you before character kept you.
What am I saying in essence? I’m saying, go for the physiques you love to avoid stories that touches the heart after some years.
Marry someone you’ll still find attractive and admirable after many years. Character is important but if you are not satisfied with her physical attributes either, you will be lusting after it from others after some years.
I insist, while searching for a good character, make sure that character is in the body you admire and will still admire after years.
